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L'ABECEDAIRE: J... comme JEU (Note du 26 MAI 2003)

 

J comme Jeu...

 

Le " Jeu "\302\205

C’est par ce " terme " que le milieu libertin d\303\251signe souvent ces pratiques\302\205

Pour beaucoup, il s’agit avant tout de jeux de r\303\264les, m\303\252me si quelques-uns uns prennent leur r\303\264le tr\303\250s (trop) au s\303\251rieux.

Un jeu de r\303\264le atteignant au pouvoir : qui le donne, qui le prend, qui l’offre, qui l’accepte et qui y fait quoi, pour ne pas dire qui en fait quoi ?

Nous avons dit ailleurs que le but ultime du " jeu " est le plaisir m\303\252me si celui-ci s’obtient par des actions qui ne sont pas comprises (ou admises) par le plus grand nombre\302\205Et nous ne parlerons pas ici du " NORMAL "\302\205puisque personne n’a encore \303\251t\303\251 capable de d\303\251finir ce que doit " renfermer " ce concept.

En effet, le Pape, qui nous dit que seul l’acte sexuel en vue de procr\303\251er est normal (et il ne parle pas, bien s\303\273r, de la notion de plaisir) repr\303\251sente des millions de chr\303\251tiens\302\205Nous d\303\251crit-il pour autant la NORMALITE ?

" L\303\240 o\303\271 l’id\303\251al asc\303\251tique inflige la faute, la culpabilit\303\251, la damnation et l’angoisse, l’id\303\251al h\303\251doniste promeut les vertus du jeu, la volupt\303\251 du hasard d\303\251sir\303\251, la joie du conflit sublim\303\251, le plaisir du th\303\251\303\242tre jou\303\251, la sensualit\303\251 du vertige assum\303\251.

Le corps l\303\251ger, l’Eros d\303\251li\303\251, le vitalisme quintessenci\303\251, la sexualit\303\251 d\303\251culpabilis\303\251e en soulignent la dimension \303\251minemment ludique. "

Il est bien entendu que l’int\303\251grit\303\251 physique et morale du partenaire ne doit jamais \303\252tre mise en danger malgr\303\251 ce qu’une certaine presse veut nous faire accroire en se servant d’une affaire qui fait sensation ces jours-ci\302\205

Il est un fait que pour certains, la gamme de ces jeux varie entre ce qui se situe dans le " soft " ou dans le " hard ". C’est certainement chez nous l’\303\251ternelle question qui d\303\251bouche toujours sur un puits sans fond.

Ce qui distingue le " hard " du " soft " est tout simplement le niveau du d\303\251ni de chacun : ce qui sera " hard " pour nous appara\303\256tra peut-\303\252tre comme " soft " aux yeux de quelqu’un d’autre. L’essentiel \303\251tant de demeurer fid\303\250le aux r\303\250gles d\303\251finies \303\240 deux et donc de se demeurer fid\303\250le \303\240 soi-m\303\252me\302\205

Puisque nos contrats, lorsqu’ils sont \303\251tablis entre de vrais pratiquants (nous excluons ici les simples " consommateurs " qui feront l’objet de " O comme Occasions ")mettent en " jeu " dans le jeu les aspirations de l’un (e) sur lesquelles l’autre offre une garantie des limites consenties.

En d\303\251finitive, c’est le " Je " qui m\303\250ne le " jeu ", comme sujet ou comme objet mais toujours actif (et r\303\251actif).

Nos jeux sont tout sauf affrontement in\303\251galitaire, et m\303\252me s’ils th\303\251\303\242tralisent les r\303\264les du " dominant " et du "domin\303\251", ils sont pr\303\251cis\303\251ment \303\240 l’oppos\303\251 de ce que la philosophie nietzsch\303\251enne a d\303\251fini comme "rapports du ma\303\256tre et de l’esclave".

En outre, si la langue fran\303\247aise emploie le mot " pervers " il ne faut pas confondre les deux acceptions qui en d\303\251coulent : la perversion et la perversit\303\251.

Si la perversit\303\251 est, malheureusement, la propension \303\240 faire LE Mal (dans l’absolu), la perversion est surtout simplement un comportement (souvent sexuellement typ\303\251) qui n’entre pas dans les NORMES du grand nombre\302\205

Alors, qu’on laisse \303\240 nos " joueurs " le droit de se faire plaisir en jouant avec leur perversion, ils ne font de mal \303\240 personne , m\303\252me pas \303\240 eux-m\303\252mes (sourire) et que les gens atteints de perversit\303\251 soient soign\303\251s, eux, oui\302\205

Il existe, malheureusement quelques personnes qui associent les deux composantes\302\205

 

" L’\303\251rotique solaire s’appuie sur une formidable volont\303\251 de jouissance dont le principe axiomatique suppose un grand oui \303\240 l’existence, un double et mutuel consentement imm\303\251diat aux forces qui nous travaillent et menacent d\303\251bordement. "

NB : Les textes imprim\303\251s en rouge sont extraits de :

" Th\303\251orie du corps amoureux " de Michel Onfray (Grasset et Fasquelle \302\226 2000 ).

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